Because sexual changes can have many causes--especially for patients with cancer--your doctor should evaluate you physically, psychologically, and emotionally. For example, you may need to have lab work for thyroid functioning or hormone levels. Test results, combined with your descriptions of how you feel physically and emotionally, will help your doctor determine the cause of your sexual changes.

An important part of recovering is to try resuming sex when you feel ready. Do not rush yourself to "get better" as fast as you can, but try to avoid long periods without any sexual touching. Resolving sexual changes can be a slow process, but you need to start somewhere, even just with cuddling on the couch or "making out" as you may have done when you were a teenager.

Despite your cancer or cancer treatment, you should be able to feel sexually satisfied. It may require remedies from your doctor, time, patience, and an openness to try new experiences, but eventually you will enjoy sexual activity with your partner that feels right for you. Your personal comfort level with any medical or psychological treatments you try will play a big part in their success.

This section includes more information on:

Remedies for Women

Remedies for Men

Suggestions for Patients With Ostomies

Alternatives to Sexual Intercourse

Self-Pleasure

Conversation Starters With Your Doctor