Treasuring the moment at hand is what lifts the spirit. Dismiss it as cliched talk if you will, but to those threatened by a grave illness, every day of just being takes on a new light. Surely you wonder how you could ever complain again—about a rainy day, a broken piece of china, or someone's unkind words. Though that feeling of equanimity salves the cancer shock, it can also linger in the consciousness and become a subtle yet permanent state of being. I catch myself when I get too caught up in some silly little thing; I remind myself, What am I doing? How lucky I am to be here.
From LIVING TIME: Faith and Facts to Transform Your Cancer Journey by Bernadine Healy, M.D. Copyright © 2007 by Bernadine Healy. Published by arrangement with the Bantam Dell Publishing Group
This story appeared in the April 9, 2007 print edition of U.S. News & World Report.