When a Wife Gets Cheated On, Survival Mode Kicks In

The problem to me is not the cheating, but the people. We really dont know who we are that we settle to do things that degrade ourselves out of lack of knowledge. You must start by loving yourself and you will understand what love is, then you will be able to know what you mean when you say you love someone.

You will not be deceived by empty feelings and run to look for solutions by looking for love in wrong places to fill up your emptiness.

I am a cheated wife but i see to it that i fulfill my missions i have come for on planet earth, not to be misserable for his actions. All i can do for him is to give him love which is real and he gets too frustrated and lie more and more to those who are like him.

I know who i am and what i deserve. I did not come here to get happiness from others but to share mine with them, even my beloved friends cheating with him.

I believe if they can look within and face the truth about this cheap action they would choose a better way of having affairs, with themselves.

Life is a gift and no one should waste time over non-sense. There is a lot to live for, i wont let my kids suffer for someone thus i focussed on making us happy from within.

What you focus on grows, so focus on your gift of life and happiness. You will have done a lot of good. But what do you get when focussing on foolishness of people who dont value themselves trying to mess your happiness, dont permit them. Strengthen your mind body and soul.

After all this sex and stuff that causes them to cheat is not a speck of what your life is about. Follow your bliss.

BEE 6:09AM July 21, 2011

Nice post, thanks for writing!

seolace of AL 9:28PM May 05, 2010

Put this in your article please and listen to your readers...for a change.

I recently was cheated on by a man whom I dated for over

5 years. Both of us are over 50, I've never been in this

situation ever in my life (that I know of)-

I've devasted and lost with so many mixed emotions of what I

should do etc.

A cheating man or woman - thier should be a law against this'

immoral conduct.

Mandy Roo of CA 10:59AM January 12, 2009

If you consider cheating it will only mean a few things...#1 you're not happy #2 You're not happy #3 How can I make things so that I am happy within myself and my relationship. Why would I do it.What is wrong with the one I have.

I have cheated and it only brought short term happiness and ruined my relationship to the fulliest. YOu will only damage your reationship further if you decide to cheat. Obviously realtionships are based on honesty and communication. IF you cheat its alllll LIES and lack of communication between you and your spouse. BE the better person and don't take the easy way out(be brave not a coward)!!!

Marypoppinsll of FL 10:37AM June 08, 2008