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Dr. Ruth Offers Advice on Improving Your Sex Life

April 29, 2009 03:52 PM ET | Deborah Kotz | Permanent Link | Print

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#5

I understand now why my lady said it hurt her feelings when I would imediately get up to shower off after we made love. All she wanted to do was lay there and cuddle. Thanks Dr. Ruth for enlightning me as to how to make my sweetheart feel all the love she deserves.

sexaloneforoverayear10year relationship

I have stop having sex with my partner. I have also replaced food for intimitice and remain to have a relationship with my tool. I dont know how to ask my partner, nor do I want to get naked with him . Im enbarrassed and disappointed in myself.

HELP ME GOING TO ALONE AT 45 PARtner is 57

Increase Pennies Size

Hi,

Dr. Ruth

I want Increase my pennies size, so please give me advice. Otherwise i'll never married. so please what can do so give advice.

what medicine i'll take what kind of take care how to Increase my pennies size, iam waiting for your kine reply.

Thank you very much for your advice.

Thanks

Riyaz

53 and never had and orgasms

How caN BE POSIBLE THAT i NEVER HAS AN ORGASMS EVENTHOUGH I HAD BEEN MARRIED 3 TIMES. nOW IN MY 3RD MARRIAGE MY HUSBAND DRIVE ME CRAZY BECAUSE HE CAN NOT UNDERSTAND ABOUT THIS MATTER.

i NEED HELP URGENTLY BUT i DON'T KNOW WHERE TO GO FOR HELP

It exists...

I have multiple orgasms: the g-spot, female ejaculation, anal, clitoral, vaginal, nipple...Im blessed my husband took the time and love me to these new heights...IT DOES EXIST!

The good doctor

I was out of college when I heard Dr. Ruth for the first time. I knew nothing about orgasims after having sex just 1x with a guy who cared only about his own pleasure. It was Dr. Ruth who clued me in to what I SHOULD expect and way to achieve it. I loved her frank ways; when a husband/wife asked her how they could have the big "O" at the very same moment, she looked at them and called them nuts (or something similiar). She told them to be happy they both had the big "O's" and to stop being greedy! Personally, I believe sex would be SO MUCH BETTER if people were actually in love and committed (married) when they had it. Sadly, it's become a recreational activity that often loses it's special-ness...and it is also, at times, followed by disappointment, neglect, worry, sadness, disease, unwanted pregnancy, etc. God had the right idea when he talked about man and woman, marriage, and intimacy.

Boys in Junior High and High School (and even College)

are often woefully dumb about whether girls secretly and shyly like them. They NEED straight-forward girls who will just march right up and tell them so. I'm not talking about game-playing flirt stuff. I'm talking about straight-up helpful honesty.

It can light fireworks in his heart for you.

Similar dynamics exist in the mechanics of the intimate relationship in marriage. There are a lot of virgin girls today (especially in the churches) who hope just as much to marry virgin guys. This is the ultimate sweet thing when it happens. But such girls must assume that the boys will need help--as a matter of the mere inexperience-- when they get there too. This even moreso can result in a lifetime of fireworks, BECAUSE (especially if he is a virgin) he is dying to please you and will remain so indefinitely if you help him find the dynamite. Kind, sweet, straight-up helpful guiding honesty. (Skip Cosmo--introduce him to YOU as only YOU can.)

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Deborah Kotz, senior writer for U.S. News & World Report, covers everything women care about when it comes to their health. She's often tapping out "Oprah-esque" confessions about how the latest news relates to her personally—whether it's on breast cancer, contraception or easing work-family stress. She'd love to hear your confessions too at onwomen@usnews.com. Also, you can follow Deborah on Twitter at twitter.com/debkotz2.

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